A Descent Into Darkness

Sometimes It's Going to Hurt

I've found losing a close friend hurts.

Sure there are people who I'm not in touch with anymore.

Many of those were good friends.

But losing one of the close circle, someone you truly trust and care about, really does hurt.

This is what I have learned recently.

The result?

A descent into darkness.

Caring too much has it's downsides.

But what option do we have?

To not care at all?

The thought has crossed my mind.

For a while there I was saying to myself "from now on, I'm not getting close to anyone new. The group of friends I have is all I'll have".

I don't think that's a bad choice, but it's a close minded one.

And as a coach who focuses on the human connection side of things that comes with coaching, it's tough to maintain.

The darkness usually lifts for most people.

I carry little frustration or anger in regards to the situation.

But I've chosen to hold onto the sadness.

I'm happy to carry that with me even when I'm in the light.

Until next time,

Marco